True love is about expansion and not possession, Sadhguru believes. When you truly love someone, you don’t lose yourself — instead, you grow to become your best version for the person you love. Love allows you to see another person as an extension of yourself, embracing their joys and pains as your own– this helps you work together as a team against all odds, instead of being in ego and working against each other. This sense of inclusion dissolves boundaries and creates emotional unity. Rather than trying to control or change your partner, you accept them fully. This inclusiveness makes relationships richer, deeper, and more meaningful. Love, then, becomes a journey of becoming more complete through connection, not dependency.